Am I mean?

I started working on a project last night when I started to think and feel evil thoughts..."I really don't feel like doing this". Do you ever do something for one particular person but in reality you are obligated to mention it's to the couple or maybe to the family when really, you only did it for the one person? Then when someone gets serious about the other person you have to start buying "couple" gifts? I don't know why but I think it sucks. I want my own gift sometimes ya know. So then I started to think "maybe I'm just a mean person"? Why do I even think of these things? Does anyone else feel like that too or am I the only mean one? Anyway, just thought I would get that off my chest.